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You Have To Pretend To Love Less, So They Love You More?
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You Have To Pretend To Love Less, So They Love You More?
Do you remember those days when people went all out for the one they love? People write letters from their hostels, homes, warfront (soldiers), detailing how they feel about you, how they can’t wait to be with you, and how you make them feel.
The photo of your significant other hanging dramatically from their special place at work, their wallet, they made everyone around them know how they feel about you, they are not even bothered about their ego, pride and their image, what people would say, what friends would say and all.
But these days, the love affair is like a movie. The more the merrier, the more drama involved in this transactional love affair, the more it feeds some egos. People compete to be the toughest, the one who is not affected by the end of the relationship, or its potential to end.
Now I am being updated that these days, to have someone love you, you have to pretend you don’t love them as much as you do, so they don’t take your love for granted. So you have to be in love with a sprinkle of weird meanness now and then.
Who makes these rules? Who carried out the research, came up with this scope or strategy, and declared it the winning way of affection?
With this weirdness in the already confused society, people will pick it up and run. They will say that good men don’t get good girls, or that girls love a bad guy, and not a good man, because they easily get bored with a good guy, while the mean intervals form the bad guy, garnish the relationship and keep her wanting more from him.
What this means is that a completely good man with a good heart and all is considered fit by the girls who crave some spicy relationship style from the bad guys. They want to feel the adorable and the absolutely weird side of a man.
But is this true? Do ladies secretly see adventure in everything they do, including marriage? Was this in existence long before now, or is this a new thing that was discovered in this generation?
Marriages have lasted very long with just two people choosing each other, and not about the material things, not even about the bad guy tendencies, but just a beautiful life picked and led by two young individuals.
Conclusion
While people come up with everything these days to get their views and feel relevant, not all relationships require a bad guy. When you find yourself in a happy, functional one, please stick with it and stop seeking weirdness.
You are no longer a child looking for shiny objects in everything you do; create your shiny object with the one you adore, and who loves you back.
To be completely immersed in these everyday strategies that arise on social media, be smart. But I’m curious, have you tried the new strategy?
