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How to make a man respect you
How to make a man respect you
The societal standard is that women are not regularly disrespected like men. It is either they say women talk a lot more than men, or women are not as uncontrollably of their emotions like the men are, so they tend to disrespect someone when they try to express themselves.
Some say the reason is that women are not as sensitive to insults as men are. When a woman is spoken to rudely, she is expected to stand or sit there and just take it, respectfully, and that’s how they know she was well trained, or that’s when society will appliad her and call it a lady-like behaviour. Part of a lady’s readiness for marriage should be the calm ability to take endless strings of insults from her significant other.
The moment a woman reacts erratically or talks back, she is then tagged untrained, insubordinate, and not wife material.
Some women have remained in a relationship where they are constantly being disrespected, and they don’t know when they are being insulted. They can no longer decipher when they are maltreated because maltreatment is what she gets all the time, so she doesn’t have anything to compare it to; she doesn’t know when she is disrespected.
This post aims to lay it out for the ladies who are confused, helping them realise what disrespect and disregard mean. This post will break it down and analyse the behaviours to look out for, for the sole purpose of identifying the point where a disrespect had been carried out.
You are in a loving relationship where you spend more time trying to convince people that you are happy, but they see through you, and they literally can’t help you until you let them. So, they just listen and watch while you do all you can to paint a good picture of your relationship. I am not your family and friends. I will tell it as it is, and this is it;
Those who already know what disrespect is and receive it daily can identify it. If ever a man whom you like and thought he like you, suddenly begins to disrespect you, then this is what you can do to when he is disrespectful towards you, this is for you.
. Don’t be quick to pick up his calls; pick up when he calls the second time. Don’t text him anymore, and let his texts linger before you reply.
If he insensitively cancels a plan with you at the last hour, do not reschedule or inquire about the next plan; simply accept and do not react to it. If he devalues your time, show him your worth by becoming unavailable. Do not let your heart or body betray you. Take time to react or retaliate during physical conversation; that creates a mysterious vibe.
Don’t say all you think, and don’t act out all you want. Don’t touch him, and slowly prevent touches from him while you talk. Don’t explain yourself to him, and don’t find his jokes funny. Look away more and give him a glance on interval.
Maintain a low pitch, like a lack of enthusiasm to be around him, and act like you have better things to be doing with your time. When ge thinks he is doing you a favour by hanging with you, wear a smirk smile, and don’t fire back. Simple remains slightly irritated with wearing a frown.
He might roughen your feathers, so don’t give him the satisfaction by getting upset. When he disrespects you, cut ties and access. Do not demand an apology, nor tell him his faults. No debate, no threats, no warnings. When he thinks you are too attached, show him otherwise by creating a big gap.
He will attack your image, using condescending name calling when talking about you, that’s the anger from their failure to break up.
Teach him to respect you by respecting yourself. He will get away with whatever you let him. If you keep giving him chances, he will call you a fool through actions and words. You alone can see the standard he needs to follow.
Conclusion
When they say, ‘Be the change you need to see,’ this applies here. When you come across as someone who doesn’t respond to you, you have to teach him to. Spot when the change starts and nip it in the bud. Always teach people how to treat you.
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