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7 Tips To Never Feel Lonely On Valentines
7 Tips To Never Feel Lonely On Valentines
Valentine’s Day is all lovey-dovey, a completely magical day, so magical that some people do not want it to end. This is a picture for those who have a significant. But on the other side of the clock, an equally enthusiastic, group, who do not have a significant other, want nothing more than the day to come to an end, so they can move on with life. These groups had tried to find love before Valentine’s Day or had love. But a lot of it before Valentine’s Day, and somehow they are completely alone, the world chooses to celebrate love on the day.
It is a challenging time for the group of singles, separated, divorced, or bereaved. The constant bombardment of romantic messages, flowers, chocolates, pictures, and love-related adverts from brands on the television, billboards, phones, internet, makes anyone feel like they’re missing out on the love and connection that the whole world seems to be enjoying on February 14th. They are made to either ignore the day, resent those who are enjoying the day, and maybe make remarks, and decide that they do not need anyone in their lives to complete it. Ofcourse we all need people, humans were not created to be alone, we are a social creation.
However, Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be a lonely or depressing experience for those without their love. With a little creativity and planning, you can turn this day of love into a celebration of self-love, friendship, and community. Remember that there are different types of love.
That being said, here are 7 ideas to help you never feel lonely on Valentine’s Day Again:
1. Host a Galentine’s Day Party
Invite your closest friends over for a Galentine’s Day party. Ensure these friends are also without plans of their own on that day. So inform them well ahead of your plan. Your fellow single Pringles can come to dine and wine with you, play games, and watch movies. They are not alone, and neither are you. You all urge each other on in the most beautiful way, during the long-lasting show of affection.
Decorate your home with red balloons, or other colours of flowers, and heart-shaped decorations. Enjoy a night of laughter, games, and delicious food together. You can even have a DIY spa night, complete with face masks, manicures, and other pampering treatments.
2. Treat Yourself to a Solo Date
I know some people love their alone time, but when you are seen on a lone date on Valentine’s Day all alone, people automatically see you are lonely and miserable. But if you do not mind, why not celebrate Valentine’s Day with a solo date? Take yourself out to your favourite restaurant, movie theater, or museum. Buy yourself flowers, chocolates, or a special gift. Do something that makes you happy and feels indulgent. After all, you deserve to be loved and celebrated, too!
3. Volunteer Your Time
Spend Valentine’s Day giving back to your community. Not all giving back involves money. You can volunteer at a local soup kitchen, animal shelter, or nursing home. Helping others can be a powerful way to shift your focus away from feelings of loneliness and towards the positive impact you can have on others. This gives you a reason to be grateful, even though you have no lover.
4. Have a Movie Marathon
Invite some SINGLE friends over for a movie marathon, or have one by yourself. Choose your favorite romantic comedies, or opt for something entirely different and new, like a horror movie or a documentary. Make some popcorn, grab a blanket, and enjoy a cozy night in. Watch pictures of others on social media and find the humour in the situation. Also, don’t let your friend come out of pity for you, or come with a significant other, to make you the third wheel on a day like that.
5. Take a Class or Workshop
Sign up for a cooking class, painting workshop, paint and sip class, or dance lesson. Not only will you learn something new, but you’ll also meet new people and have a fun and engaging experience. Remember time flies when you are having fun. So learn a foreign dish or a better way to prepare the ones you already know. This could be obline or physical.
6. Practice Self-Care
Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to prioritise self-care. Take a relaxing bath, fill your tub with warm water, and have a bubble bath, give yourself a massage gift, or practice some yoga or meditation. Do something that nourishes your mind, body, and soul. You have to fix the mind space, while you expect that loved one to come.
7. Celebrate Platonic Love
Finally, remember that Valentine’s Day isn’t just about romantic love. Celebrate the platonic love and connections in your life, whether it’s with friends, family members, or pets. Show your appreciation and gratitude for the people and animals who bring joy and love into your life. You have experienced loneliness, you can help others with your experience. By gifting them, you remind them that they are not forgotten.
By incorporating one or more of these ideas into your Valentine’s Day plans, you’ll be able to shift your focus away from feelings of loneliness and towards the love, connection, and appreciation for what you already have, things that are already present in your life. Remember, you are loved, you are worthy, and you are enough, regardless of your relationship status.
