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2 Shocking Reasons Your Man Could love The Baby In You, But Not You.
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2 Shocking Reasons Your Man Could love The Baby In You,But Not You.
Most women do automatically asuke that their partner loves them as much, if not more than theh love the baby, because they created the baby using love,
and that causee them to assume that their partner loves every step they take, loving the very ground they walk on, and ready to be a god support to then throughout the pregnancy, in a selfless manner.
While this may be true for some people, because everyone comes from different backgrounds, and that affects that decisions in life, that influences their believe system.
Some men will always place their mothers above their wife and kids, and that is because his background, and probably his mother’s teaching influenced it.
On that note, when a woman begins to feel like her husband doesn’t lile her when she is not able to give birth, she feels he married her just so he can have his children. He basicaly claims to love her for the children she will besr him in the nearest future.
When that future begin to grow far, some women experience perculiar things, like distance frkm their husband, mockery, cheating, insults and disrespectful utterances, especially if he is an African, because Africans marry for the sole purpose of child birth.
Another unique experience when have, is that, after the whole pregnancy, after the anticipation for a baby, and the baby eventually comes in, these women notice that their husbands do everything for the unborn child’s safety, while ignoring theirs.
Firsg of, this can only be done by a man with limited understanding of how pregnancy works, because they forget that the mother and child are very much linked, until the birthday.
What affects the child, affects thd mother, so why will a normal thinking individual assume that it is okay to do right by the child, while ignoring the mother?
For instance, a man asking his allergic wife to eat more fish and eggs which are good for the child, but upsets the body of the mother? Who really thinks like that?
If the body of the women becomes unsettled, will thd baby relocate yo another body? That baby is literally in the same body. The kind of things unintelligent people do, that make no logical sense.
Today, we have come up with an explanation as to why he man would be on alert for the safety of their unborn child, while ignoring the woman. They sometimes make it clear as night and day, that the baby comes first.
Now, before we start to get all agitated and livid, looking to hate on one man or more, let us not forget that this is not the case for everyone, and the people who do it, actually have two reasons why they do it.
Some men realisd they are grown, then they availed realise that they are old enough to settle down. When they realise this and actually end up with a lady they live, then they show her love to the fullest.
But then they end up with a lady that is available, a lady that is innocently inlove with them, more than they are with her, she is willing to go all the way with them no matter what, then this is the time they show her all the shades of manipulation.
Theh marry her, she feels like she has won their love, while she see a beautiful life with him, he sees a baby making factory in her. He endures her, because she is about to give him his children, making his babies, and for these two reasons:
1. Blood Is Thicker Than Love
These men will aways see the children as theirs, due to their biological makeup, which is the same as them in new bodies.
Do not underestimate the power that being able to multiply their DNA, and making the so called wife to be nothing more than a machine for this achievement.
When a man who doesn’t love you, looks at you growing that bump, and thag happens to be his, or atleast he thinks it is his.
He looks at you pregnant and sees his mini me in your body, thag tiny being is their genetic legacy, their bloodline for his next generation.
Now a better man will see it as the next generation for the both of you, the man and the woman. It is a thing of selfishness, having to only see your wife as a means to an end, instead of the partner God had ordained her to be.
He doesn’t care ho much discomfort and stress your both passes through, if he is kind enough, he would pretend to care, but other than that, he just legitimately doesn’t care.
The baby is not juts him being stretched out to the next generation, but his father and father’s father have also had their genetics catapulted into the future.
No kne is saying you shouldn’t live your child, but what stops you from being normal and liking the woman and her child, and not just the child, after you ensure that the baby comes out safe.
The legacy thag will outlive him, and it comes from the woman whom he has chosen as a wife, containing both DNA.
It is almost like he is bound to the bloodline, nd instead of the woman being seen as a help, the man see knly him and the kids as the main characters of the story.
2. Forever In His Life
The second reason could be that the man in question has had a damaged believe system all his life, where he can not trust anyone, he doesn’t only holds his believe tight, he acts them out.
He believes that the woman can wake up one day and decide to leave him, but not his kids.
The kids according to him, will remain his forever. Your baby is stuck with him, or more like, linked to him forever.
In a case where you both decide to go your separate ways, the baby will still be his, and be part of your life. You can chnag yojr phone number, you key, your postal code and more, but not the child stays his child, except when the child decides to sever ties.
The believe in the permanence of the bloodline surpasses the romantic relationship. If your life and that of the woman end, then you, knowing that your next generation still lives.
The truth about Men
The men are not all the same, their environment of growth, their teachings, and their love for the woman they end up with it. When a man loves the woman he has chosen to be with forever.
He will be need to be in a good place with his woman, when the two of them are meant to be a team, and trian their kid togther in love, in the right direction, and in the right way.
There are birth videos where you see men who are genuinely looking out for their wife who just gave birth. They love the new baby, hut the are alo concerned about their child.
Some men just face the child and lets the nurse and doctors handle the wife and all that she needs from them, health wise, forgetting the emotional part, where he needs to comfort and assure her of his support and help through out this new milestone.
Conclusion
While humans have some strange believes and things they hold on to, some just don’t care that much, just because men are being told they dont love their pregnant wives enough, this doesnt mean that your husband is the same. So, understand the husband you have , before you judge him.
