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1 Common Way Laziness Kills Love
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1 Common Way Laziness Kills Love
People often assume that when your partner goes from being the perfect one by character, to something entirely different, like showing you love privately, and publicly, like getting you flowers at not only special times, but even at random times, for a date, breakfast, and spending time with you, attempts in the littlest ways that seem big enough, making the simple time to become something so special it is unforgettable. Now this is not about the money, the location or even the time, but when a man attempts to make a time special, he will do it, with no excuse.
He makes time out to do things with you that bring you happiness, going with you on appointments, that he doesn’t even have to go with you. These include your cosmetics, dermal, dental and other health appointments, and even extends to your family, your friends and all things that concern you.
When he goes from doing all of these, to suddenly changing, becoming too busy, still doing the same job and role, meaning that he hasn’t taken on any extra duties, which would mean that he has limited time to do the things that he used to do. He simply begins to complain about not being in the mood to do anything, with little to no enthusiasm. You become a plague, rather than a flower, the beauty, the perfect human that you used to be. He changes into a person with zero enthusiasm, zero love in his eyes, and he makes it obvious to you.
He shows zero interest in your things, the things which he used to enjoy doing with you, now become more like a punishment. Even when you attempt to invite him to do those things with you, he declines and turns down the invite; it always comes off as though you have been replaced or are about to be replaced, maybe he has found another partner, but you dont realise that the reason could be the good ole Laziness.
They just don’t see the time, the need, the reason to continue to woo you. But they don’t realise that in marriage and relationships, you must continue to date your partner; the secret is that you don’t start what you can’t finish. If you are not ready to be real and do the things you can safely do forever, then don’t love bomb her with kind gestures that you can’t possibly sustain. When you get tired of impressing her, and she gets comfortable with those things, you stop doing the good things.
However, we often overlook the one thing that could be the issue, right before we consider replacement, which is the reason why he is acting this way towards you. But not everyone realises that Laziness is the problem.. What if they haven’t replaced you? They just got complacent? They just
What if they have bagged you, either as a girlfriend or a wife, that they don’t see the need to keep trying to keep you, they don’t get intentional, they don’t even try anymore?
Things that they used to do without much thought, do have become a luxury. There are no signs of cheating, at least not of spontaneous dates or their equivalent. Flowers on special occasions become a luxury rather than a standard, and gifts and surprises leave the chat permanently.
It is not exactly so. People are almost too busy trying to meet their target, so cheating is not the only reason why those special moments are no longer felt in your relationship or marriage.
The list of targets, the list of things to attend to, the kids, the financial goals, and ways to achieve them are real-life experiences that can affect your fairytale relationship, which can cause some absence of PDA and more.
Conclusion
Ladies, not everything that changes in your relationship is about your partner cheating or something, but it might be falling short, not living up to expectations. He is just lazy, and relaxing the good things he used to do, because he has gotten you, and he has lost the reason to continue to impress you.
